Thanks Soulend. That's all I wanted to hear.Originally posted by Soulend
For the most part, the Japanese were always very nice to me each time I have been there. About the only manifestation I saw were the restaurants and bars where gaijin were not allowed. And sometimes it seems to depend on the gaijin for whatever reason. For instance, I went into one place and noone said a word, but my buddy behind me got the old crossed forearms treatment. Got a little story from the latest trip though.
Tony (Kimpatsu) and I were eating in a little resturant in Hiroshima when an older Japanese man came in and muttered something to the effect that he 'didn't like lousy foreigners in there' to the waitress. Tony heard this and mentioned it to me. At first I was a bit angry, but after awhile I hit on an idea just to see how he would react, and to subtly let him know that we knew what he said. We called the waitress over and asked her to take a beer to him, and to put it on our bill.
She came back and told us that he said he doesn't drink alcohol - despite the fact that he plainly had a beer in front of him already which he had been drinking!
So, I let a bit of time elapse and bought a beer which I personally carried over to him, and delivered with a bow. He seemed very embarrassed (which I enjoyed immensely) and did not refuse it this time, and later brought some sake over to us and was very friendly.
Most of the time it seems like this. Little snotty remarks, which quickly vanish when you confront the person personally.
Japan is very different, as Hyaku says they are going to do things precisely as they wish. If you go to Japan as a tourist you will probably have a wonderful time and encounter very little of racism. They will be overwhelmingly polite and accomodating, realizing that you will be getting out of their country and going home soon. For an ex-pat who lives and works in Japan it is a different story.
Hyaku, be careful how you word things! If you address a message to someone saying "The Japan you love to hate and hate to love", what do you think they'll percieve, as I did? I understand your message now. Thank you for clearing that up.
Choji screens. Of course! With some uchiko covered walls, mekugi hammers for art deco., etc.! Yeah sorry I meant Shoji Screens!
God bless,
Joshua Smith