... and whether or not you are "special" yourself...
What does kind of bug me about secrecy is when it becomes fetishistic. Yeah, there are secret things and there are secret things. More often than not secret things just make communication harder. After going round and round about some secret thing someone finally throws up a video or talks in plain English and suddenly it is "Oh, just that?"
On the other hand when beset by swine, keep walking with pearls safely in hand.
Doug Walker
Completely cut off both heads,
Let a single sword stand against the cold sky!