Originally Posted by
mikesigman@eart
The problem is that even though these skills have been around within the higher levels of the Japanese arts for a lot longer that would be apparent on the surface, there are still very few (comparatively) who know how to do these things or even know what they are, in most instances. Which gets to the part in my heading about "attitude". All the normal defensive responses, not to mention the acquired pride,pomp, "status", etc., will come into play. You can see it on this forum. I've seen it on others.
That's a tough question, Mike. It's sort of like "how do you get kuzushi?" isn't it?
Or is it more like "How do I make Dad understand that he's just not hip anymore?"
Well, reading your post carefully, let me just quote you exactly again, "How do you tell some person who has been "doing martial art X" for 20 or 30 years or more that he may be missing a key element?"
Seems that just telling him "You may be missing a key element" should do it, huh? Are you hurt if he doesn't take your word for it.
Or is it possible that, having trained in the matter you discuss for 20 or 30 years, that person may know the subject better than you perceive after reading a comment on a message board? If he can miss something in his intimate studies of 20 or 30 years, maybe you can miss something about him in your 20 or 30 seconds of "considering" what he has to say?
Or maybe he really does understand the subject better than you? You have admitted of a wide but spotty, on-and-off association with Japanese martial arts over many years, obviously with very different teachers of many different levels, each with his own limited understanding of whatever art you mention. Could it be that you never really attained what can be gotten out of 30 years of following a single great teacher, who was an acknowledged master of all the Japanese arts you have studied and could relate them all to one another in proper perspective?
Maybe it's your mistake for thinking you are qualified to tell such a person he's missing something that you, with your piecemeal training and reading of such things as Ueshiba's doka (in Japanese?) have apprehended.
If you simply "don't make waves" and mention these things, you're essentially slighting all the upcoming students and enthusiasts at the schools of all of these people.
Or it could be, that by keeping quiet, you would actually help them by letting them find out for themselves.
I think your real problem with that is that you just don't know how to discuss things with people. You begin with the #1 assumption that you know better than they. So what do you expect to hear?
So your motivation isn't discussion, either. I think you'd just rather argue than be ignored.
If you don't bring it up and you happen to supposedly care for martial arts, you're not doing well by the very thing you profess to care for.
Mike, here's the truth: if you care that much about it, stop reading the doka and go find Akira Tezuka (Shizuoka City, Japan) to show you the truth of aikido. If you want to do good for martial arts, then train and study. Don't presume to set other people straight whom you've never met.
But anyway, I think for the moment, the 3 issues in the header are inextricably bound up and any discussion of ki and kokyu issues rightfully needs to consider "attitude" within the current hierarchies. It makes a good discussion, IMO.
You could make a more interesting discussion of something you understand. Kokyu is not in that category. Why don't you post on 'jin'?
Very best of wishes to you.
David Orange, Jr.
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"That which has no substance can enter where there is no room."
Lao Tzu