Originally Posted by Chris Thompson
Chris, been there, done it, got petrol bombed out of my home due to it. If you think mediation is a way then fine. When they get outside they will just turn on you regardless of how well the negotiator is. If you get into that situation you just move away. Then you come back.
When you say "real life", what do you mean? Little people backing him up? In the local pub and they are bad mouthing you? Or they ramming your car off the road then attacking you? Will they use a shotgun from behind (which is the cowards way), or from the front so you see their face before you take a nice chuck out of their body? Which would you rather do?
If that is what may happen, do you want to be there? If not and you have claimed to have been in those situations, then all I can say is that you have made some very bad choices.