Why is it that some people feel that this is some kind of issue to be addressed in a therapeutic sort of way. Trying to put a westernised spin on things and find explanations and deal with things transparently.
Its not. Its about someone who has given up for some reason or another when he is only a very short way along the path. So what if he wanted a break ? Let him have it, and if he doesnt come back then thats his loss. If he only wanted the glory of having a black belt, let him have it, but we all know this is just the beginning of learning so again its his loss.
It might as well have been swimming or rock climbing. If the student gives up without explanation please tell me what is the point of seeking out an answer. Is it to measure the weakness in our delivery, or some such similar pseudospeak crap ?
If he comes back then he should have an explanation (if he is inclined to give it) and when he does then in my book he has to start all over.
Thats my twopennorth for what its worth.
Osu
Trevor
Trevor Gilbert
("If I had to select one quality, one personal characteristic that I regard as being most highly correlated with success, whatever the field, I would pick the trait of persistence. Determination. The will to endure to the end, to get knocked down seventy times and get up off the floor saying "Here goes number seventy-one" - Richard M. DeVos)