There's been some debate at our dojo recently about the concept of Go Ju Ittai, specifically how much one can say it has applications beyond the dojo walls. While it's intellectually satisfying to think that all philosophical concepts in Kongo Zen have relevance to 'ordinary life', in the case of Go Ju Ittai attempts to generalise the principle seem a little strained. Sensei George drew our attention not long ago to the relation between GJI and the idea of 'tough love'. Despite the tweeness of the term, it does describe something useful and valuable in our relations to people we want to 'help to help themselves' (to use another slightly nauseating phrase), and as such a concept highly relevant to the ethical code Kongo Zen tries to instill. Moreover it is a clear case of the unity of a 'harder' mode of behaviour with a certain 'softness' in both long-term goal and underlying emotion; as such it is certainly one metaphorical extension of GJI.
But Sensei George said he was ultimately dissatisfied with this interpretation, and that he was still thinking about it and of course we should too. This is my clumsy attempt to do so, and I'm hoping that by criticising, commenting and calling me a twat you'll help me to clarify my thoughts.
My feeling is that there already exists a generalised explanation of the centrality of GJI to everyday moral life, within the principles of Kongo Zen. This includes 'tough love', 'gotta be cruel to be kind' etc without being limited to it. If we think about the meaning of 'hard' and 'soft', we associate 'hardness' with strength, solidity, vigour, force, unyielding pressure, as well as connotations of difficulty and physical prowess; we associate softness with yielding acquiescence, acceptance, lenience, gentleness, relaxation, care.
The communion of these qualities, in everyday life, is seen in the balance found between on the one hand self-discipline, developing one's strength, confident action, and gaining the power to influence society in some way, and on the other compassion, caring for and developing others, acceptance of misfortune, calmness etc. It's not that living half for oneself is 'hard', half for others 'soft', but that a blend - indeed a unification of active, powerful qualities and yielding, accepting, gentle ones is fundamental to moral life. In other words, the general application of Go ju Ittai is Riki ai Funi.
Again, i don't mean Riki ai Funi has no application in the dojo - of course it does, but behaviour in the dojo, though distilled and ritualised somewhat, should be of the same essential character as outside. Go Ju Ittai describes the specific application of the unity of hardness and softness to Shorinji Kempo waza. Riki ai Funi describes Kongo Zen's approach to hardness and softness in moral life: one without the other is either harmful or useless (and therefore harmful); correctly understood, they are inseparable; when practised in harmony, they have a beneficial effect on society and the individual.
I know this is a very simplistic take on these much-discussed and immensely complex issues - as I say it's just food for thought. Sensei George, I'd be particularly interested to know whether the kind of unity of active use of power with yielding acceptance of fate is relevant to what you were saying about action, inaction and Zen mindfulness.
Finally, in accordance with the principle of Riki ai Funi, I'd like to state that a hard and draconian FA punishment of Arsenal FC for their latest bout of ill-disciplined violence would be, in the long-term, for their own good.